March 19. 2002
WELCOME to the No B.S. Golf Newsletter
I would like to take this opportunity to welcome all of our new
subscribers that have joined us since our last newsletter.
Jennifer Scott, Certified Clinical Hypnotherapist, Golf Mastery
Coach, and author of the 2 CD set audio program, Own The Zone has
given me permission to share with you a 1000 word article that she
has written for Golf Magazine and Golf Digest. It has some good
information in it, and I would like to thank Jennifer for letting me
use it in my newsletter.
Own The Zone can be purchased at the website: www.
thinkandreachpar.com/tarp/jennifer.htm
GET OUT OF
YOUR OWN WAY.
By Jennifer Scott, C.Ht.
Traditional golf dogma says \"your
real opponent is the golf course.\"
Not true. Your real opponent is you.
When he was asked how many swing thoughts he had, Bobby Jones said,
\"If I have two swing thoughts, I have no chance at all. If I have
one, maybe I\'ll have a good shot. If I have none, then I can play
like Bobby Jones.\"
Today, winning professionals prove it every weekend: to lower scores
you need consistency with each and every swing. For this, you must
learn how to take control of your inner mind... the same way you
trained it to type or drive a car. In other words, you have to think
like Bobby Jones. Said even better, you have to not think... just
like Bobby Jones. Then you\'ll have the control you need to take
care of first tee jitters, putting yips and obsessive negative
thoughts.
But there\'s a big obstacle to taking control: Pre-Swing Thoughts.
Those compli-cated, confusing and often conflicting thoughts that
rattle around in your brain before you take a swing are really all a
result of one thing: STRESS. Which one - or ones - victimize you the
most?
Stress Producers: The 4 Categories
1. It Isn\'t Fair!
Your drive takes a weird bounce into a lake. The wind takes your
beautiful, high pitch shot straight down into a sand trap. It\'s
plugged. Your putt lips out. You start fuming. You\'ve been wronged
by some superior force. You feel like throwing a club, but you
don\'t because you might hit someone. Instead you keep it all
inside. And what does this internal stress do to you before the next
shot? Where is your mind? Where is your focus?
2. Perfection
You hit your drives so well on the practice range, but now, on the
real course, you\'re slicing everything into the rough or worse. You
just lost a ball in some-body\'s yard. You\'ve never been this bad!
Where is the real you, the one who hits it so well? On the other
hand, even when you\'re hitting well, your perfectionism is still a
problem. Because then, nobody else is good enough to play with you.
Secretly, you\'re disdainful of your partners\' bad playing. You
think, \"they\'ll drag me down.\" And as you address the ball for
your next shot, where is your mind? Where is your focus?
3. Approval
It doesn\'t matter who you\'re playing with, you always want to
impress them. You want them to admire you. If they\'re not as good
as you, you strut around like a Professional Champion. Even when
they haven\'t seen your great shot, you have to tell them about
every facet of it, just to get the kudos. But if they\'re better
than you, you get nervous. Trying so hard, you literally fall apart,
regressing to a rank amateur. Before you take the next swing, is
your focus on the target ... or the audience?
4. Control
You like to have things go your way. You always plan to have a set
amount of time to practice. And you\'re always there early. If
something goes wrong with this master plan, your day is ruined. You
hate it when anyone stands within 20 yards of you when you\'re
putting. And God forbid, they should make a sound! When you miss the
putt, it\'s their fault, not yours. The foursome ahead of you is
always too slow. The guys behind you are nipping at your tail so
much, you can\'t con-centrate on anything except rushing to get out
of the way. As you address the ball for your next shot, where is
your mind? Where is your focus?
The Search For Relaxation
OK, it\'s agreed. You need to relax before you swing. But how? To
achieve relaxation, golfers have tried everything from beta-blockers
and alcohol to transcendental meditation. Beta blockers --
prescription drugs -- can have serious side effects, including
extreme fatigue, so you\'d better ask your doctor about them.
Alcohol has been seen on the golf course, but while it can relax, it
also tends to diminish hand-eye coordination, so I recommend you
don\'t drink and drive, chip or putt. As for T.M., it\'s fine when
you have lots of time for it.
As a practicing Clinical Hypnotherapist, I teach a simpler and
faster way to get there: Self-Hypnosis. Don\'t worry: Self-Hypnosis
isn\'t \"woo-woo.\" It\'s firmly based on the realities of today\'s
golf game. In fact, no one else will notice it, because once you\'ve
integrated it into your pre-shot routine, it takes less than 5
seconds.
What is Hypnosis?
There are lots of times when you\'re in hypnosis and don\'t know it.
For example, if you\'re listening to your car radio and arrive at
your destination with no idea how you got there, you were in
hypnosis. Or if you\'re watching a movie and your attention is so
focused on the story that you are oblivious to your surroundings,
you\'re in hypnosis. When you\'re engrossed in a book or on an
interesting conver-sation and don\'t realize how much time has gone
by, you\'re in hypnosis. And -- on those rare occasions when you\'re
playing golf \"dialed in,\" \"out of your mind,\" or \"in the zone\"
-- no doubt about it. You\'re in hypnosis. Since it\'s so natural,
why not take advantage of it? It\'s an untapped source of power you
can apply to golf.
The Power Of Hypnosis
How would you like to experience this power, right now? Here\'s how.
First, I\'d like you to create a pendulum. If you already have one,
that\'s fine. If not, you can easily make one by taking a piece of
dental floss about a foot long and tying it to a key or large paper
clip.
[picture of a pendulum held over the diagram]
[pin diagram]
Place this diagram on a table. Sit in front of it in a
straight-backed chair. Hold the pendulum with your thumb and
forefinger and rest your elbow of that hand on the table. Now stare
at that pendulum and visualize or imagine that it\'s moving from the
Tee Box to Pin \"B.\" Let it happen. Now imagine it swinging from
the Tee Box to Pin \"A.\" Soon you will see the pendulum swinging as
you envisioned. Now imagine it swinging from the Tee Box to Pin
\"C.\" Watch it change, slowly. If it doesn\'t swing, it\'s only
because you\'re too tight. You\'re fighting it. And if you\'re too
tight swinging a little paperclip and dental floss, imagine how
tight you are swinging a driver! So loosen up, relax and imagine or
visualize it moving in a chosen direction.
This illustrates exactly what can happen with your golf shot. After
clearing your mind, relaxing your body and focusing on a very
specific target -- your ball will follow the flight path that you\'ve
imagined, just like the pendulum! And if it doesn\'t, it\'s only
because you\'re holding your club too tightly or you\'re not relaxed
or you\'re not really focused on your target.
Trusting Yourself
Have you ever marveled at the control winning golf professionals
have over their swings? How would you like to learn how to have it
and never lose it? It\'s really quite simple, once you\'ve learned
the techniques of Self-Hypnosis and integrate them into your
pre-shot routine. What may be most difficult for you is to
under-stand, accept and trust that Self-Hypnosis can actually give
you the power to train your inner mind to do what you want... to
train it so well that it can be relied on...shot after perfect shot.
Don\'t worry about looking unusual. No one else will have any idea
of what you\'re doing -- because you\'ll be doing it all in your own
mind.
The Way To Get Out Of Your Way
When you hear winning golf professionals say, \"I just got out of my
way,\" you\'re really hearing them say they found a way to clear out
mental chatter and relax. And this is what Self-Hypnosis techniques
can help you do: clear away the stress and the jumbled pre-swing
thoughts which destroy any hope of a relaxed, repeat-able swing. For
help, contact a good local Clinical Hypnotherapist (C.Ht.) who has a
program for golfers.
Finally, you\'ll be able to get out of your own way.
Jennifer Scott, C.Ht.
If any of you have any questions for Jennifer, please email them to
Richard@thinkandreachpar.com
If you would like some more information on Own The Zone or would
like to order it, please go to the web site www.thinkandreachpar.com/tarp/jennifer.htm
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